‘Hang in There, Kiddo'

My mother is 95, and lives independently for the most part. This past week, she had a bad fall and wound up in hospital. Fortunately, the damage did not involve fractures, but it was either a setback or a forward step, depending on one’s life perspective.

During one of our daily visits at her bedside, we discussed my Dad’s passing. They were married 67 years, and Mom recalled tightly holding on to my Dad’s hand, as he quietly slipped away.

She confided in me that just before he died, he gently pulled her close and whispered in her ear, “hang in there, kiddo.” While the phrase might be considered thin by some, it was endearing, filled with indescribable love, and genuinely my Dad. He knew her journey forward without him would require just that, the resilience to “hang in there, kiddo.”

It’s been 15 years since Dad left and Mom has more than hung in there. She has lived with independent gusto. Now, however, “hang in there, kiddo” is very literal, and is requiring her to let go a little. Hanging in is taking on new meaning.

I’m sharing this personal story because I’m wondering if that simple phrase might apply to many of us. The ground underneath me feels shaky. I’m an optimist and love life. At the same time, I feel more unsettled than ever.

So, while I’m compelled to thrive and flourish, perhaps the best strategy at times of heightened uncertainty, is to simply “hang in there.”

Thank you, Dad. This kiddo is going to hang in there too. I’m so curious what’s next.

Thanks for the space to write and share this with you.

Think Big, Start Small, Act Now,

Lorne

One Millennial View: I happen to think Grandpa’s phrase is fairly profound, because when you’re hanging in there, you’re not just hanging in there for yourself, you’re holding up the people around you as well. If you lose control during uncertainty, you freefall, and someone else either needs to catch you or you’re lost. Thank goodness Grandma has modeled how to hang in there, we’re lucky to learn from her.

- Garrett

AI Response: Your mother’s resilience is inspiring—especially considering that adults aged 85+ have the highest fall-related injury rates, with 1 in 4 seniors falling annually, often leading to significant health declines. Yet, her ability to live independently at 95 is remarkable, as only about 2% of Americans reach that age, and far fewer do so with such vitality. Your father’s words resonate deeply; studies show that strong emotional bonds, like your parents’ 67-year marriage, can contribute to longevity and mental well-being. In times of uncertainty, research also suggests that acceptance and perseverance—much like "hanging in there"—can reduce stress and foster adaptability. Your optimism, paired with this mindset, is a powerful combination for navigating life’s unpredictability.

‘Hang in There, Kiddo'

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